Destroying communities just like D1 college teams are destroying communities when they offer higher education to kids? Im almost certain that UH plays a team every year that features a Hawaii kid. We don’t complain when those kids find success at their respective institutions, even if it’s at the expense of UH.

Not sure if I understand your motives here. If you want to complain, then you should go ask the state why they don’t devote more resources to public schools and raise our standards of education so that there isn’t as much of a desire to go to private schools. Until that point don’t don’t question the opportunities that parents are taking advantage of in order to get their kids an education. If you have kids you can do what ever you want with their future, but so far your logic suggests that you would also be against college scholarships if they were fortunate enough to get offered one.