Comments on: Heckling, bad-apple parents spoil it for kids https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/ The source for Hawaii's high school sports Fri, 10 Dec 2010 04:06:12 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 By: pupulepaul https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-464 Fri, 10 Dec 2010 04:06:12 +0000 http://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/?p=3935#comment-464 In reply to ValLockett.

Aloha Val! No need to apologize, but your sentiment is so awesome. It was only a few Moanalua fans who were negative, and though they weren't all yelling at full throttle, the fact that they had young children nearby hearing everything … that blew me away.

The best action we can take as fans or family is to use peer pressure to negate that 1% (or less) that bring negativity through the gym door. A little positive reinforcement. A little reminder that the kids need to hear support, not the opposite. It has to come from those of us in the bleachers because the coaches, trainers, athletic directors and other administrators already have their hands full. It's on us to encourage each other to remain positive.

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By: ValLockett https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-462 Fri, 10 Dec 2010 03:38:15 +0000 http://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/?p=3935#comment-462 As a proud Moanalua parent of an athlete, I would like to extend my apologies on behalf of the hand full of indignant, but mostly ignorant folks that unfortunately (whether they think so or not) represented Moanalua High School during the Roosevelt vs Moanalua game. We are a humble and proud community, and this is true embarrassment at its highest and in its lowest form.

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By: ValLockett https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-463 Fri, 10 Dec 2010 03:30:08 +0000 http://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/?p=3935#comment-463 As a Moanalua parent of an athlete, I would like to extend my apologies on behalf of the hand full of indignant, but mostly ignorant folks that unfortunately (whether they think so or not) represented Moanalua High School during that game. We are a much better community than that, and this is true embarrassment at its highest and in its lowest form.

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By: kamealoha70 https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-461 Fri, 10 Dec 2010 02:27:13 +0000 http://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/?p=3935#comment-461 I hear you, so very true. I've been to some high school football games and heard some very ungrateful and unreal parents (with children present). Some people yelled vulgar language and I was in shock! Things really get out of control when you hear someone yelling “What the f#*@ was he thinking!” or “I could've stayed home if I knew they were going to lose!” and it gets worse. One of the comments that stuck in my mind was “catch the f#*@n ball you loser!” Very sad and yet very real. I'll try my best not to conform to the unsportsmanlike behavior.

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By: walaau https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-457 Thu, 09 Dec 2010 05:04:01 +0000 http://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/?p=3935#comment-457 “Fans” like that should be tossed out of the arena. What ever happened to cheering and supporting without being critical of others. I suppose those moms were all-stars during their days, huh? The other 99 percent should be allowed to verbally abuse the offenders until they decide to leave…that will teach them to act up!

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By: Gail Juan https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-455 Wed, 08 Dec 2010 23:59:58 +0000 http://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/?p=3935#comment-455 GREAT STORY…. IGNORANT WOMEN…. NOW TEACHING THEIR KIDS HOW TO ACT UP AT A GAME WHEN SOMETHING SERIOUS HAPPENS…

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By: posterized09 https://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/boys-basketball/heckling-bad-apple-parents-spoil-it-for-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-454 Wed, 08 Dec 2010 20:45:15 +0000 http://www.hawaiiprepworld.com/?p=3935#comment-454 So sad… actually just plain stupid. There's the aloha spirit for ya'

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